Characters

frienship between autumn and jamie

The Friendship Between Autumn and Jamie – How It Really Evolved

Jamie does not get talked about nearly enough when people discuss If He Had Been With Me. He tends to get treated as a supporting character in Autumn’s love story with Finny rather than as someone whose relationship with Autumn has its own arc, its own texture, its own significance. That is a mistake. The friendship between […]

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autumn's relationship with her mother

Autumn’s Relationship With Her Mother – Neglect and Emotional Distance

When readers talk about If He Had Been With Me, most of the conversation goes to Finny. To the accident. To the love that was never spoken. But there is another relationship in this novel that deserves far more attention than it usually gets, and that is the relationship between Autumn and her mother. It does

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